Youth are developing good character

There are critics, complainers and creators. Today we’ll focus on some of Minnesota’s most creative educators, including some in Forest Lake, Isanti, Woodbury, St. Paul and Coon Rapids.   They are being recognized at the state, and some at the national level. A terrific statewide organization, Synergy & Leadership Exchange, is honoring Minnesota district, charter and independent schools for their work to help young people develop good character.  The word “character” may sound boring.  But the award winning activities are anything but Coon Rapids Middle School is being cited for its successful efforts to reduce bullying, and increase positive contacts between young people.   Having worked for some years with middle school students, I can affirm that these are major issues at this age.  As sixth grade teacher  Mrs. Lisa Torbenson wrote, “Owning Up is about teaching young woman and young men how to deal with bullying. Bullying comes in many forms- students need the tools to be able to deal with the bullying, overcome being the victim, stop being a bystander, and stop bullying once and for all.

“Students are taught how to use the SEAL steps, how to deal with bullying online such as facebook, and how to deal with bullying via text messages.

“My after school program consists of 46 girls who focus on dealing with gossip, rumors, exclusion and the threats that face young girls everywhere. The hope is that the cycle stops before these young women reach adult hood. We cook in our class, make lotions and lipgloss, talk about fashion, and of course- boys!

“While we are cooking we discuss some of the issues that they are going through the week- together we use the tools that I have taught the girls and we being to problem solve as to how we can handle the problems faced with each week. The girls learn how to build one another up- instead of tearing one another apart. Many girls have devoted themselves to be kind and to make sure to think before they speak, so that the words that come out are helpful to others instead of hurtful.

“I am seeing less gossip, fewer rumors being spread, less exclusion and more students helping one another out. I am seeing the girls build one another up and genuinely being happy for each others successes. I am seeing kind actions, I am hearing kind words, and I am seeing happiness among the girls.”    She can be reached at lisa.torbenson@anoka.k12.mn.us

Lakes International (charter) Middle School in Forest Lake is being selected for its partnership with the Minnesota Twins.   According Julie Lundgren (jlundgren@lakesinternational.org)  “Students engage in activities with the Twins to help build a community that sees strength in diversity. Just as the Twins team is composed of people from many backgrounds, so too is our community. Students have learned about the importance of diversity and been key ambassadors through their skills in multilingualism to bridge cultural differences throughout Twins Territory.

“LILA is a K-6 language immersion school and International Baccalaureate (IB) World School whose mission focuses on international-mindedness, multilingualism, and character development through Responsive Classroom and the IB Learner Profile.

“The partnership creates opportunities for students to act on their learning; since it began, students have participated in Twins Spanish radio broadcasts, written winning essays for the Jackie Robinson Day contest, and when Japanese player Tsuyoshi Nishioka debuted in 2011, LILA students sang “Take Me Out to the Ball Game” in Japanese as a special welcome. The annual Twins Caravan has made LILA its first stop, generating excitement for the upcoming seasons and offering advice about baseball and life.”

Governor Mark Dayton’s State of Minnesota Proclamation for Character Recognition Day puts it well:  “Minnesota is strengthened when good character and ethical leadership are encouraged and citizens make decisions that positively affect themselves and other.”

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